Tuesday, August 12, 2008

Walking to Harry's

Saturday morning (not early enough) I walked to Franks. Then I called home and DD3 got up on the second attempt. She and DW made it over to Franks for a great comfort breakfast.

I had to wait at least 30 minutes to get a table. This place is small. Yet people keep their tables for a while. Actually service is lazy, even with all the waiting. Once you have the table there is no attempt to hurry you along. We bought two big breakfasts and split it for three people. That works great here, each of us got a good breakfast.

DD3 and her mom. Isn't it cute?











Me and DW. I'm too wet for her to snuggle.

Wednesday, July 23, 2008

Saturday, May 3, 2008

Fantasy

Fantasy
Should I go here? Probably not. I was thinking of the movie Peggy Sue Got Married. Do you remember the movie? Directed by Francis Ford Coppola, and starring Nicholas Cage and Kathleen Turner. They all did a great job. Kathleen Turner is in a coma (I believe) and in her coma she goes back in time and relives her life. In real life her childhood sweetheart turned husband is cheating on her with a younger woman. She knows about it and they are facing divorce. In her dream she relives the more happy times with her boyfriend who she now knows she will eventually marry. So she decides, what they heck? "I will not wait until marriage. I will have sex with him now."

I think Hollywood writers love this kind of scenario. It's fantasy sex. It's sex with no consequences. There were several movies with mermaids turned to beautiful women. They were free fantasy sex to the lucky men who encountered them. I'm sure there are plenty of other situations I cannot recall now.

Well funny thing about changing history. It isn't so easy. When she propositions her boyfriend he freaks out. Cage has a great quote here, "That's a guy's line, Peggy Sue! That's a guy's line!" I just love dilemmas like that. Peggy Sue figures "What the heck?" I'm going to marry this guy and have sex with him in the future. This is not cheating really since we are destined to be married after high school. She is reliving her life but she knows the future. There is a funny line about an Edsel.

I remember high school and college dating a bit like the Cage character did. I would try to get a girl to go further with me after a date but truly expected, almost hoped she would say no. Somehow, weirdly, I felt it was my obligation to try. Yes, it was objectifying a girl. A girl saying yes would have freaked me out. This was quite a bit like fantasy. If a girl had tried to proposition me I would have freaked. I would not have had to say no or yes. Did that make me a tease? I imagine a lot of girls had me figured out.

Tuesday, April 15, 2008

Omari Tau Williams



My favorite section leader of all time. Omari Williams, now going as Omari Tau.

Tuesday, April 8, 2008

Keeping material things lightly

Loyola spoke of this. It was one of the things his disciples, the Jesuits, were supposed to do. One man, I forget his name, was exemplary in that when Loyola asked or volunteers to go to India. When someone got sick at the last moment he said, "Yes, I'll go." He was on the boat within a week. For most of us that would be impossible. Now the fact that he was single and had no family certainly helped. Few of us could be ready that fast. And remember there were several other Jesuits who did not jump up to volunteer. So yes, this man was exemplary.

I was thinking about this because it is so much fun to accumulate. But then at some point I have run out of room or lost the ability to keep track of all the stuff. Then I slow down the accumulation. I then try to cull items I don't need but that is much harder than getting them in the first place. This is all a part of having so much. My possessions run over, no doubt. When I die there will be so much for people to go through. I am concerned about that but I still have a hard time releasing things.

I couldn't even list all this things I have accumulated but a partial list is:
CD music,
Beta movies mostly taped off the TV (I still have them),
there are over 200 tapes with 2 or 3 movies on each tape most still work
VHS movies (only 100 of these),
DVD movies (second daughter bought most of these),
downloaded .avi movies,
cassette music,
old Redeemer albums
old Vineyard albums
old radio shows taped from the radio on cassette,
Oddessey radio shows (Focus on the Family) taped from the radio and some bought sets,
I have almost all of them until 2001 or so when
the kids positively got too old to care
books in several book cases,
Apple II software (I have so much of this stuff, mostly on 5.25" diskettes),
some restaurant matchboxes
many series of magazines that I have subscribed to (why?)

So I am certainly a negative example of holding things lightly.

Monday, April 7, 2008