Proverbs 22

Two kinds of behavior will bring you to the attention of the king (read that powerful, influential people). One who is gracious in speech 11) and one who is skilled at his work (29).

This chapter has some oft quoted aphorisms. A good name is to be more desired than great riches (1). Train up a child in the way he should go. Even when he is one he will not depart from it (6).

Of the later I have great pride. We did a great job, with the help of God and many wonderful people, of raising our four children.

In contrast listening the lives and character of the men in prison, who are really trying to change, it saddens me. Most of them did not have nurturing childhoods. Yes, children have choices. Not all children from neglecting families turn out bad. There are many reason why parents are not successful in raising their children. Sometimes circumstances make things impossible. But some kids hardly have a chance.

The rest of the chapter give lots of good advice about how one can become successful in life and come to the attention of influential people and have a good name.

We are not to oppress the poor. We are not to borrow money unnecessarily. Once you are a borrower the lender has a control over you. He can make your life hard.

My commentator made a list:
1) Think ahead, be prudent (3)
2) Fear the Lord, and know yourself (4)
3) Do not walk with evil perverse people (5)
4) Train your children well (6, 15)
5) Calm your temper (8)
6) Be generous to those in need (9)
7) Stay away from those who criticize people (10)
8) What kind of people do you model yourself after? (11)
9) Don't be lazy (see #1) (13)